Social media can often resemble a battleground than a place to connect. Because of all the differing perspectives and the lack of any structure or limit to expression, it has become a mix of disagreements, aggression and sometimes even spitefulness.
Don't get me wrong: There are good things on social media, too. But no amount of good can cover up the bad and the ugly that also reeks of bias and hostility as well.
What happened to social media? When did social become so anti-social? I really don't know. What I do know is that this poses a challenge for believers.
As Christians who should be wary of our testimony because we carry the name of Jesus before we carry our own, how are we to interact on social media?
Here are four considerations before taking that chance to post, tweet, share, or comment on social platforms.
1. Do I Really Have to Respond?
I know that social calls for interaction, but sometimes the best response to a piece of content is to not respond at all. James 1:19 reminds us, "Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger."
Social media can be really fast paced and we can sometimes feel the pressure of having to respond right away.
But sometimes our silence can speak better volumes than any amount of interaction. You don't have to reply, share or like everything that you see online.
2. Is This Loving?
The end goal of all we do is to love our neighbours as ourselves, even if we don't see them. I know it's hard to love someone through a laptop screen or mobile phone display.
But imagine how much harder it probably was for Christ to love us through all the sin and disobedience. Yet, He chose to love us still. In response to that, we are called to love even the most unlovable trolls we encounter online.
3. What Is My Goal?
For everything there is a purpose and for every post there is a motive. Social media has brewed so many negative intents such as narcissism, judgmental behavior and even apathy. I find myself falling short in this area sometimes, but I always remind myself that my social media interactions are a privilege and I have a responsibility to watch my intentions.
4. Am I Achieving Clarity?
It's so easy to be misunderstood when all people have to see are words. So with what little words you have to express your true intent, are you making yourself as clear as you possibly can? Take a moment or two to read through whatever it is you want to post and see it from the perspective of others.
