Christians Look for Faith in Marriage, Poll Reveals

A recent poll has revealed that two out of three members of the dating agency Christian Connection say they would only marry someone who shared their faith.

When asked, "In what circumstances would you, as a Christian, consider marrying a non-Christian?", 68.1 per cent responded 'None. The person I marry must share my faith.'

Meanwhile, 14.9 per cent responded that it was okay if he/she was a good person and willing to becoming a Christian.

Jackie Elton, Managing Director of Christian Connection, says: "We don't ask people to sign statements of faith. Most members prefer to describe themselves as 'just Christian'. While the second largest group are Anglicans, we have people from a wide range of traditions including Evangelicals, Liberals, Pentecostal/Charismatic, Catholic, Quaker and Orthodox."

Jackie, who formed Christian Connection in 2000, believes there are wide differences between Christian traditions.

"Many members have little experience of, let alone close relationships with people from different backgrounds," she explains. "Some consider certain traditions 'out of bounds'. Catholics, in particular, can find it more difficult to marry a non-Catholic.

"It's very exciting when people form friendships and get married across these divides."

According to Jackie, a couple's faith is enriched and deepened if both are prepared to embrace the positive aspects of difference.

"They can face difficulties - from family, friends and church, particularly when the faith commitment is strong," she admits. "And there will be practicalities to consider such as wedding services and bringing up children."