Family members held a memorial service in Jeju, south of the South Korean capital Seoul, days after Bae's body was found on Wednesday with 10 bullet holes in the head, chest and stomach. Bae turned 42 that day and is survived by a wife and nine-year-old daughter.
Kim Hee-yeon, widow of the slain South Korean pastor, told at a news conference on Friday of how she explained to her daughter that Dad had received a huge gift from God on his birthday and returned to heaven.
A pastor for around six years, Bae was one of the founders of the 5,000-membered Saemmul Church in Bundang, just south of Seoul, and was the oldest of the group sent by the church to Afghanistan. He led services for younger members of the congregation, the vast majority of whom are under 40.
"Our pastor who was killed was a very good Christian and a very peaceful person," said Park Eun-jo, senior pastor at Saemmul Church.
Many, including his older brother Bae Shin-kyu, describe him as a generous and considerate man who liked to help others.
"He was close to many members of the church, because he was always generous enough to help with the prayers of each of the 300 members of the youth division," Yonhap news quoted an acquaintance as saying.
Bae travelled with 22 other Koreans, 18 of whom are women, on a bus to Afghanistan despite warnings from Seoul not to go because of security concerns. They were taken hostage by Taliban insurgents last Thursday on the main road south from Kabul.
According to Saemmul Church, the group of volunteers was only there to provide medical and other aid to distressed people in the war-ravaged country and was not involved in any Christian missionary work in Afghanistan.With 22 hostages reportedly still alive, Kim and other family members say they are praying earnestly for the remaining volunteers to return safely. Although a difficult and mournful time for Kim, she told reporters that she decided to hold a news conference out of empathy for the relatives of the 22 abductees.
Relatives of the relief workers cried in shock, with some fainting, when initial news reports of their abduction came out. Over 700 Saemmul Church members held an overnight prayer vigil for the safe return of the volunteers.
Kim told reporters she hoped the deaths would end with her husband and that no other person would become a victim.
According to the latest update, a Taliban spokesman said on Friday that the 22 South Koreans were alive and that the group would not set further deadlines while it continues to negotiate with the government for their freedom.
[Christian Post correspondent Kim Kun-hye in Seoul contributed to this report]
